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What To Avoid During The Divorce Process

Emotions tend to run high during the divorce process. You may be tempted to retaliate against your ex-spouse but doing so may hurt you more in the end. Going through a divorce is never easy but it can be done smoothly if you avoid these costly mistakes.

Ignoring Finances

Divorces can be costly but if you ignore your financial obligations it could cost you more money and a headache. Make a budget and stay on top of it by making sure the household bills are paid. A divorce can be draining but you will want to keep your bank account full in order to pay for any upcoming expenses.


Feuding and disagreements may have led to you and your spouse seeking a divorce but that doesn’t mean it has to continue. During the divorce process try to keep things amicable. Court orders could be issued if an argument escalates and becomes violent. You could lose possession of your home or custody of your children.

Being Dishonest

No matter the reason, it can be problematic if either you or your spouse are dishonest about any information. Lying about finances or the children will only count against you during court proceedings.

Not Consulting a Legal Expert

Most people think they can go through a divorce alone without legal representation. Mediation is a common practice that is used to handle a divorce without going to court. However, consulting with an attorney will give you much need advice and peace of mind.

Sharing Personal Information

With the growing popularity of social media comes the increase of people’s need to overshare. Avoid using social media as an outlet to air your grievances about your ex. Those comments could come the judge’s attention and negatively affect the outcome of your case.

Involving the Children

Divorce is hard enough on children but when they are forced to pick one parent over the other it may cause problems in the custody battle. You could end up with limited rights and visitation or possibly lose custody altogether. Remember to secure a positive environment for your children and keep them in the routine they are accustomed to until the divorce is final.

Nobody wins when it comes to getting a divorce. Cooperating with your former spouse will allow you to reach an agreement amicably so you can both move on with a new life. Seeking legal advice will prove to be beneficial during the divorce process. The Holman Law Firm is the solution for any help you may need.

Stephen T. Holman, Senior Partner, and Justin T. Holman, Partner, are committed to providing the best legal service in Pensacola, Pace and Cantonment, FL in a variety of legal areas including Family Law and Personal Injury. We specialize in Fathers’ Rights and will be there every step of the way to fight for your rights. Our office is located at 1940 W. Saint Mary Avenue, Pensacola, FL 32501. Cotact us now for a free consultation at 850-435-6909 or go online at www.HolmanFirm.com.